you are a swell (nice) gal, like we say
here in Brooklyn (NYC).

i need to do a few tweaks on it, and
after i do that, i will rush my site over
to you milana, for your kind advice,
before the week-end is over.

thanks, milana…you are a sweety!

martha,
(martha white).

i knew, you got more class than mob rule.
i dont have any tone against anyone,
and please understand that calling
anyone “hot-shot stars” is not the end
of the world….there are a lot of worse
things people can say to anyone!…martha.

All i said about you guys was you 5% are incredibly
blessed people….many greatly sucessful people
have publicly said that, they have been blessed.

Is that such a BAD thing to say, that they are blessed ???

And, i said the same here for you 5% and rather
than helping anybody who are 95% in down dept. and they
are licking their wounds, you 5% guys jump on them
and kick them harder…READ all above posts thorughly
by giving some thought, and not reading them on the fly
and you see that, you 5 % have been unnecessarily just
EVIL here….and unfortunately, milana…bought into
you guys and she put in her boots too, now you guys
can feel better, right ?

Look at all the vitriol and venom directed at me
and my fellow 95% failed on-line people, by all you
5% top people….here.

The ONLY huge problem here is you people dont
READ what i wrote ?….READ-ing is NOT scanning,
skimming and skipping, you know, brilliant top 5% ???

Scott Statten, talks about condecending tone, that is
his own…not mine….he and others talk about wanting
“get rich quick” … cant you people READ at all ???

Go back and READ there, i never wrote anything up
there about wanting to be get-rich-quick, it was
actually exactly opposite that, when i said…if milana
could show a way via an ebook or some tips via an email to
just get started with making just a few bucks on-line ?

Just getting started making a few bucks on-line sounds like
“get rich quick”….to you guys ???? …then, heaven help
you 5 % guys !

This just totally appalling and attrocius behavior on
part of you 5 % guys….your sins of omission or
delibertely, omitting what i have said above
and more so, twisting everthing above what i said
above and now enjoying yourself with mob rule
against me.

IF you from 5 % guys have not been ganged up
on me like a mob….milana, would never have
responded in her last post above the way she did,
milana has got more class than that…unfortunately,
she did join the mob rule up here.

martha
(martha white)
NYC-Brooklyn.

Interesting enough, I actually UNDERSTAND where Martha is coming from. Unfortunately, it’s a very negative place to be mentally in, and the only way to get out is to surround yourself with positive successful people. No money to attend live events? BEG to volunteer! Many well-known people are known for doing that in their early days. Nobody will pay you for your stuff? Get better stuff - that is, master a valuable skill or study an important topic, then offer people advice on it.

Finally, #1 book to read: Harv Eker’s “Secrets of the Millionaire Mindset” will help you stop seeing successful people as snobs and big-shots. Because I can tell you Martha one thing – there are no more hard-working people in the world than successful entrepreneurs! Nobody had an easy ride, so you have absolutely no right to speak this way about any successful person.

Someone wise said, that your current situation is the direct result of what you’ve been up until now.

P.S. Lori, now I know you from Adam’s house cat

I don’t understand Martha’s comments at all. I am amazed at all of the resources that are available now as opposed to just three years ago. I have paid very little to get caught up with all of this and get involved in social media in an effort to learn some of these new tools. There are so many generous people out there who are willing to share their expertise if you just spend a little bit of time to look around. People like Milana, Scott Stratten, Alexis Neely, Sarah Robinson, and I could go on the rest of the night listing all of them.

I still have to work a full time job, and I know that I have to be realistic and know that it is going to take me longer to get my business going than I would like. But… nothing worthwhile comes easy!

There is such a sense of community out there, and it’s very easy to tap into. It’s easy to feel like you actually “know” these people, even though you only “know” most of them online. If you take just a few small steps to develop relationships with people, they are more than willing to share their knowledge with you. I’ve learned so much just from reading some of the great blogs that are out there!

Yes, it takes time. But no one gets anything in life for free. I’ve always worked hard and had a damn good work ethic, and I will do the same in my new business. Milana is a great example of a hard work ethic. No one handed her success to her!! But a huge part of being successful starts with the right attitude – and that has to be a POSITIVE attitude. You have to believe in yourself and what you are working toward, and anyone who has ever been successful in anything in life has done that.

There’s an old saying “you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.” That has served me well all of my life, and it continues to serve me well today.

And do not misunderstand – Milana does not know me from Adam’s house cat – I’m sure she has never even heard of me. So there is nothing in it for me to say any of this. But there are many, many kind-hearted people out there like Milana and the others I mentioned who willingly share their gifts and talents and should not be attacked for being successful! She is what the American dream is all about. But she worked her ass off for it. And that’s what I intend to do.

Just my opinion…

some of us were doing “coaching” long before it had such a label and it never has been about getting rich or more importantly getting rich quick it is about sharing, guiding and finding what each individual wants for their life (which rarely ends up being millions of dollars–even though many people think that’s what they really want out of life) … for many of us it’s about living where we want, doing what we want to do, and spending more time with family … happiness is found in passions and helping others not in $$$.

practice your craft (whatever it may be) and when you think you are getting good practice some more and then give more than you take and everything else will fall into place.

focus on $$$ and you will end up broke. focus on being the best that you can be and others will reward you for your skills and the value you bring to any endeavor.