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		<title>By: Ricardo Peixe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ricardo Peixe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 16:46:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My natural abillities is to inspire others to be more happy! And i&#039;m in love with that... Its a real miracle to see someone change in front of you... 
Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My natural abillities is to inspire others to be more happy! And i&#8217;m in love with that&#8230; Its a real miracle to see someone change in front of you&#8230;<br />
Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Milana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Milana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 10:48:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nicole, there are all skills and things you can do, and that&#039;s a great list! But there&#039;s also ONE thing that brings it all together. What can you be doing all day long w/o getting paid and not notice the time go by; while also producing your best value? That&#039;s the natural ability to focus on 80% of the time. It&#039;s tough, and sometimes working with a coach can help you truly pin-point the answer..but the outcome and the clarity turn your business around!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nicole, there are all skills and things you can do, and that&#8217;s a great list! But there&#8217;s also ONE thing that brings it all together. What can you be doing all day long w/o getting paid and not notice the time go by; while also producing your best value? That&#8217;s the natural ability to focus on 80% of the time. It&#8217;s tough, and sometimes working with a coach can help you truly pin-point the answer..but the outcome and the clarity turn your business around!</p>
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		<title>By: Milana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Milana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 10:44:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Nadia, A combination of MBA, IT, and HR tells me that you&#039;re very prolific and could easily master ANYTHING! The question is, what could you do all day long enjoying every minute of it and not notice time go by? :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Nadia, A combination of MBA, IT, and HR tells me that you&#8217;re very prolific and could easily master ANYTHING! The question is, what could you do all day long enjoying every minute of it and not notice time go by? <img src='http://www.coachingmillions.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Milana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Milana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 10:38:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Olalah, don&#039;t answer the phone unless a scheduled appointment with a client - that&#039;s been my policy since I got the 2nd phone line just for my office 5 years ago. Also, this allows people to see that you KNOW and APPRECIATE your special gift, and do not take it for granted - therefore to access it you need to charge for it... unless it&#039;s a good friend, of course :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Olalah, don&#8217;t answer the phone unless a scheduled appointment with a client &#8211; that&#8217;s been my policy since I got the 2nd phone line just for my office 5 years ago. Also, this allows people to see that you KNOW and APPRECIATE your special gift, and do not take it for granted &#8211; therefore to access it you need to charge for it&#8230; unless it&#8217;s a good friend, of course <img src='http://www.coachingmillions.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Milana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Milana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 10:34:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Deni! Great comments, thank you! I heard someone use the phrase &quot;curse by competency&quot; - just because you&#039;re good at it, doesn&#039;t mean that&#039;s your natural ability. That&#039;s why I look for other signs: really love doing it; could be doing it all day; would be doing it w/o getting paid, etc. Yes, see you in Dallas at the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.coachingmillionssupersummit.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Coaching Millions Super Summit&lt;/a&gt;!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Deni! Great comments, thank you! I heard someone use the phrase &#8220;curse by competency&#8221; &#8211; just because you&#8217;re good at it, doesn&#8217;t mean that&#8217;s your natural ability. That&#8217;s why I look for other signs: really love doing it; could be doing it all day; would be doing it w/o getting paid, etc. Yes, see you in Dallas at the <a href="http://www.coachingmillionssupersummit.com" rel="nofollow">Coaching Millions Super Summit</a>!</p>
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		<title>By: deni</title>
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		<dc:creator>deni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 01:52:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Milana,

This is so on target with what I do with my clients. I&#039;m branding it now, but it&#039;s all about what I call &quot;Digging You.&quot; The process is very exciting, as I find that many that think they know themselves and what they are &quot;about&quot; are re-discovering their purpose and passion by knowing these things you speak of. What&#039;s natural.

Next is knowing how you can do this and live your life, from a position of strength. Doesn&#039;t mean challenges won&#039;t come, they do. But I have experienced that when we know where we&#039;re &quot;coming from,&quot; what we are &quot;about,&quot; and what we can &quot;stand on&quot; then, and only then will we prosper in every area of our life.

For many, for so long, people have ridden the tide. I did it for years myself. Even things I was SO good at, that I enjoyed doing, that came SO natural for me way back when, are the things I do not like to do in my business now! I do not like to do them in my personal life now, either!

So discovering, or re-discovering your talents and abilities, skills and gifts, knowing how they can and should play a big part of everything you do, AND know that you can actually make a living from these things......from a position of strength.....priceless!

See you here in Dallas in October! Woo-Hoo!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Milana,</p>
<p>This is so on target with what I do with my clients. I&#8217;m branding it now, but it&#8217;s all about what I call &#8220;Digging You.&#8221; The process is very exciting, as I find that many that think they know themselves and what they are &#8220;about&#8221; are re-discovering their purpose and passion by knowing these things you speak of. What&#8217;s natural.</p>
<p>Next is knowing how you can do this and live your life, from a position of strength. Doesn&#8217;t mean challenges won&#8217;t come, they do. But I have experienced that when we know where we&#8217;re &#8220;coming from,&#8221; what we are &#8220;about,&#8221; and what we can &#8220;stand on&#8221; then, and only then will we prosper in every area of our life.</p>
<p>For many, for so long, people have ridden the tide. I did it for years myself. Even things I was SO good at, that I enjoyed doing, that came SO natural for me way back when, are the things I do not like to do in my business now! I do not like to do them in my personal life now, either!</p>
<p>So discovering, or re-discovering your talents and abilities, skills and gifts, knowing how they can and should play a big part of everything you do, AND know that you can actually make a living from these things&#8230;&#8230;from a position of strength&#8230;..priceless!</p>
<p>See you here in Dallas in October! Woo-Hoo!</p>
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		<title>By: Olalah Njenga</title>
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		<dc:creator>Olalah Njenga</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 21:36:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Similarly to Milana, my natural ability is in making the intangible, tangible. I can look at something that appears to make no sense at all and find the sweet spot that brings immediate clarity for people.  It&#039;s a gift . . . and a curse sometimes.  :o) (The phone rings often with people starting off with the words, &quot;Hey O, let me run something by you for a minute.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Similarly to Milana, my natural ability is in making the intangible, tangible. I can look at something that appears to make no sense at all and find the sweet spot that brings immediate clarity for people.  It&#8217;s a gift . . . and a curse sometimes.  <img src='http://www.coachingmillions.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> ) (The phone rings often with people starting off with the words, &#8220;Hey O, let me run something by you for a minute.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: jack yuen</title>
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		<dc:creator>jack yuen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 06:21:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Milana,

What if you have already worked out what your natural abilities are – but are still not getting anywhere?

When I was born, I had the ability to cry. And I cried. It was my first breath.

... And as my life journey ticked away, the seconds, the minutes, the hours, the days and the years – I did ‘things’. Like a piece of a giant jigsaw puzzle, there was a spot for me in this human game. But it was like this came naturally to me – until I was told that I should ‘do better’.

Then I thought perhaps what I was doing was not ‘realising my true potential’. What a thought! I felt ‘inadequate’. I felt that I was wasting my time with my business and my life. This was the start of the ‘chase of the century’ – which turned out to be like me being a greyhound on a race track.

Some time ago, I woke up and realised that whatever I was doing – I had created for myself because of my unique abilities. I was never going to be exactly like someone else – and I gave up trying.

Now, when I am described as a ‘fat, ugly, unhealthy, poor, lonely...’ loser – then I just say: “That’s ME. That is what I was meant to be. And don’t tell me that I am not successful – because it took a lot of effort and natural abilities to get me here!”</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Milana,</p>
<p>What if you have already worked out what your natural abilities are – but are still not getting anywhere?</p>
<p>When I was born, I had the ability to cry. And I cried. It was my first breath.</p>
<p>&#8230; And as my life journey ticked away, the seconds, the minutes, the hours, the days and the years – I did ‘things’. Like a piece of a giant jigsaw puzzle, there was a spot for me in this human game. But it was like this came naturally to me – until I was told that I should ‘do better’.</p>
<p>Then I thought perhaps what I was doing was not ‘realising my true potential’. What a thought! I felt ‘inadequate’. I felt that I was wasting my time with my business and my life. This was the start of the ‘chase of the century’ – which turned out to be like me being a greyhound on a race track.</p>
<p>Some time ago, I woke up and realised that whatever I was doing – I had created for myself because of my unique abilities. I was never going to be exactly like someone else – and I gave up trying.</p>
<p>Now, when I am described as a ‘fat, ugly, unhealthy, poor, lonely&#8230;’ loser – then I just say: “That’s ME. That is what I was meant to be. And don’t tell me that I am not successful – because it took a lot of effort and natural abilities to get me here!”</p>
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		<title>By: Nadia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nadia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 19:26:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Milana,
I have been a member in your coaching club around one year. and I baught some of your products.I am happy for that, as it is a resource for inspiration for me; and contains a lot of guidance.
I am really not sure about the natural abilities that I have.
I am sure that I am a good facilitator. I am a great active listener. I can read people.
I like doing any job that needs research, thinking and creativity. I already done several projects as enjoyment without actual payback. It seems I was taken for granted that I do great job without pay!!
I am originaly a computer engineer, climbed the career ladder till the position of IT Manager. Then, I studied MBA and attended a lot of self development trainings which made me to decide to shift my career. Now I am HR Manager. Here when I started my own interest about Coaching as a business. However, I feel I am missing something yet.
As it is not easy for me to attend the summit; however I&#039;d love to, definetly I will wait for your precious products to buy and discover myself.

Nadia Al Mousawi
Kuwait</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Milana,<br />
I have been a member in your coaching club around one year. and I baught some of your products.I am happy for that, as it is a resource for inspiration for me; and contains a lot of guidance.<br />
I am really not sure about the natural abilities that I have.<br />
I am sure that I am a good facilitator. I am a great active listener. I can read people.<br />
I like doing any job that needs research, thinking and creativity. I already done several projects as enjoyment without actual payback. It seems I was taken for granted that I do great job without pay!!<br />
I am originaly a computer engineer, climbed the career ladder till the position of IT Manager. Then, I studied MBA and attended a lot of self development trainings which made me to decide to shift my career. Now I am HR Manager. Here when I started my own interest about Coaching as a business. However, I feel I am missing something yet.<br />
As it is not easy for me to attend the summit; however I&#8217;d love to, definetly I will wait for your precious products to buy and discover myself.</p>
<p>Nadia Al Mousawi<br />
Kuwait</p>
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		<title>By: Tom Wolf</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Wolf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 20:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Milana
I have followed your work for several years and own many of your products.  The concept of focusing on your strengths is right on the mark.  Check out my web-I offer license opportunites to other coaches-this is the result of following your advise!!!  It is only the beginning.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Milana<br />
I have followed your work for several years and own many of your products.  The concept of focusing on your strengths is right on the mark.  Check out my web-I offer license opportunites to other coaches-this is the result of following your advise!!!  It is only the beginning.</p>
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